POLARITY AND INTIMACY Immersion
Experience the art + practice of tantric relational intimacy
NEXT IMMERsIon: JUNE 5-7, 2026
Where: YELLOW BARN FARM, 9417 Foothills HIGHWAy, BOULDER, CO
When: JUNE 5-7, 2026. Arrive at 2pm on Friday, end by 6pm on Sunday. we will break each day for lunch and dinner.
Who: INDIVIDUALS and Couples. an intimate group of like-minded beings.
“My time with Allan and Courtney makes it in the books as one of the top transformative personal growth weekends I’ve ever experienced, and I’ve done A LOT! The 3 days were altering to my core. There’s my life before the retreat and my life after it. ENTIRELY life changing."
- Rebecca
Depth. Love. The Divine.
These will be our guiding principles as we immerse ourselves into the sacred realms of intimacy & polarity.
This weekend will teach us to find the healing light in the eyes of another as we embark on a journey into the depths of our essential nature.
Through solo, group, and partner practices, we will practice mastering the dance of masculine and feminine, man and woman, soul and soul.
Men will learn to access their fierce love by wielding the strength of their vulnerable heart and penetrating the world from the depths of consciousness.
Women will learn to soften gracefully into the forceful power of their feminine essence, radiating their gifts of love effortlessly.
Both will know a depth, a love, and a truth that they may have never known, but always wanted.
If you yearn to embody a more sacred way of loving and living…
Join us on this quest to remember who you truly are through the eyes of the other.
SACRED PRAISE
“It’s absolutely changed our relationship.”
“I come to these immersions because every single time I step into this room, a light is brighter inside of me. I feel more alive, connected, and I am meeting more people on the same path I’m walking down.”
“All the deep relational material is able to come up, be a wild storm, and we can hold it together and work through these deep triggers, but apply these tools that actually lead to healing, growth, and integration.”
FACILITATORS
Allan McGrath is an intimacy mentor who guides men and women to embody the teachings of sacred intimacy. For a decade, he has dedicated himself to facilitating the evolution of men through embodied masculinity, finding a higher purpose and unlocking sexual power. He also leads women through their journey of feminine embodiment, sexual yoga and the art of intimacy, and works with couples on deepening their connection through polarity and relational intimacy practices in his workshops, trainings & 1-1 coaching.
Allan McGrath Isbell
Courtney McNabb is a feminine embodiment Coach supporting women in activating an unshakable internal world; turning on bodies for aliveness and expression, and integrating childhood wounding for a life in alignment with God and Truth.
Courtney McNabb
"This immersion blew my heart wide open. I’ve studied what it means to be an expressive feminine vessel for YEARS. I regularly experience this. (Or so I thought). I experienced a new, even deeper (!), depth of what it means to be an expressive feminine vessel. I learnt what it means to truly honor my expression, and I came into deeper relationship with the impact of sharing my heart with the world. I would not trade this embodied experience for the world, it has dramatically shifted how I orientate to every area of my life."
- Serena
SAMPLE SCHEDULE
Somatic embodiment practices for men and women (separated)
Co-ed practice focused on healing, polarity, or intimacy
Q+A, Sharing & Coaching
Lunch Break
Ritual Ceremony
Group embodiment practice
Q+A, Sharing & Coaching
Dinner Break (with sacred assignment)
Evening Sacred Co-ed Intimacy or Polarity Practice
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The Exchange
Unforgettable + life-changing LIVE 3-day in-person immersion in Boulder, CO.
+ Intimate group with space for 1:1 questions + personalized experiences.
+ Group thread to connect prior to arrival + support through the integration.
+ A community of heart-felt humans dedicated to love, depth, and truth.
INDIVIDUAL Enrollment $2,000
Couples Enrollment $3,750
SOLD OUT FOR INDIVIDUAL WOMEN | JOIN THE WAITLIST TO GET NOTIFIED IF SPACES OPEN UP
Payment plans available upon request.
Email TEAM@allanmcgrathisbell.com to inquire.
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UPCOMING IMMERSIONS
SEPTEMBER 18-20, 2026 | BOULDER, CO
INDIVIDUAL Enrollment $2,000 $1,750
Couples Enrollment $3,750 $3,150
Payment plans available upon request.
Email TEAM@allanmcgrathisbell.com to inquire.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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Yes. We typically have a mix of individuals and couples at these events. If you enroll as a couple, you will be mostly be practicing with your partner. If you enroll as an individual, you’ll be partnered with other individuals. We do our best to ensure there is a balance of men and women.
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Polarity practice helps you feel each other deeply again. It brings you out of habit and pattern and back into presence. Back into your bodies.
Done well, it creates more attraction, more honesty, and more intimacy.
It is about learning – or re-learning – what opens love between you, and what closes it. Many couples find this kind of awareness to be transformational (just read/watch the testimonials).
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You can expect more presence, more aliveness, and more self-awareness.
It helps you get out of old patterns, feel your body more deeply, and become more honest about how you relate to love, intimacy, and truth.
Whether you’re single or in a relationship, it can deepen your capacity for attraction, connection, and conscious intimacy.
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You’re definitely not alone in this. Almost everyone finds polarity practice edgy, even those who have a lot of experience. That’s because it asks us to be more vulnerable than we’re used to. It asks us to be seen in the fullness of our expression. And it asks us to be deeply honest. This is edgy.
You will know if this is right for you if you feel called to attend. The fear, nerves, and resistance are natural. These feelings are also closely related to excitement, anticipation, and possibility. Lean into it and you’ll be fine.
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That’s beautiful. You won’t be the only person who’s new to this work. You can check out Allan’s free workshop on masculine-feminine dynamics on his website here.
Books that may be useful:
From the Core by John Wineland
Playing with Fire by Justin Patrick Pierce and Londin Angel WintersHowever, there’s nothing wrong with coming into this with no prior understanding of polarity and intimacy practice and theory.
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No. Meals and accommodation are not included. There will be breaks for meals. There are restaurants and a Wholefoods about 15 minutes drive away from the venue. You can also bring food and snacks with you.
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Questions are welcome. You can either email us